Planning the Perfect Wedding Ceremony

The wedding ceremony is what your big day is all about. The vows, the Church, exchanging of rings, and of course, the big “I do.” Here are a few ideas about ceremony etiquette that you may want to keep in mind before walking down the aisle.

• If the Church you choose has two center aisles, pick one aisle to use as your focal point. Treat the whole wedding as though it had only one, or use the right aisle for the processional and the left for the recessional. That will allow all the guests to get a nice close-up of the couple. If you choose one aisle, you may want to consider seating guests in certain areas.
• What exactly is the ruling about the Groom kissing the bride at the altar? Ask the person performing the ceremony their opinion, the priest or clergy. This will make sure that the decision is in line with church practice so as not to offend anyone in attendance.
• Some couples opt for a home wedding. This style wedding can be just as formal as a church, but keep in mind there will be fewer attendants.

In what order to things occur in the ceremony?

Here’s a brief overview of a typical ceremony.

• The processional, involving the entering of the wedding party.
• Next, follows the welcome, Call to Worship and Introduction, typically done by the officiant.
• This is followed by the questions of intent and the declaration of consent.
• After this, the couple may choose some special music or readings to personalize the ceremony, done by family and friends. Scripture readings, congregational hymns, or solos are appropriate during this time. The couple may choose their favorite items or passages regarding love and commitment.
• After this, are the ever-important wedding vows and the exchange of rings.
• Finally we have the pronouncement of marriage (“I now pronounce you husband and wife), and any special acts of celebration (lighting of candles, flowers to family members, etc).
• The officiant will conclude with a benediction and a presentation of the new couple.
• The wedding party will the exit the chapel area during the recessional.